Coaching with Hilary

I came to Hilary because I was in a slump and was not enjoying my life or seeing things from an optimistic perspective. I felt that this was because of the cards that I had been recently dealt with in life. In my mind I was perfectly aware that my mindset had a lot to do with the challenges I was facing. I did feel as though changing my mindset would change my situation and how I felt about it. Still my days felt gloomy and I was unsatisfied. What Hilary did was take what I already knew about Mindset and truly put into action how I can control it. You see thoughts are just that, thoughts, not reality. Thoughts are the emotions that we attribute to something. The real facts are the properties of that thing and nothing more. Change our minds and we change how we feel about things. She also taught me to treasure my blessings and the things that are good in my life. Life is filled with change. Change comes for everyone, but we can control our mindsets in order to manage how we feel during these trying times. I would recommend Hilary for anyone going through hard times or need to because more fully and wholly aware of how we see and feel about these changes.

Hillary helped me so much! She helped guide me when I really needed it, gave me great advice and was an amazing person to talk to!!!

Hilary, you have made a huge impact on my life. I know coaching is what you do for a living and you help many people, but this was a very personal and vulnerable investment for me.

For over 45 years I have viewed myself in a most negative light. It was always a struggle and I mostly landed in a place of defeat and poor self-esteem, sometimes self-hatred.

I was an actress to my parents, brothers, friends, colleagues, strangers. Bubbly and happy - which Is a genuine gear of mine but so often with such deep hurt, self-hatred and secrets below the surface. No one really knew.

I was a great comedian, often animated and great at self-deprecation. Never thinking that this only deepened myself loathing. Unaware of how I was hurting myself while getting fleeting joy from making people laugh.

You will never be called "the coach that helped me". YOU, Hilary, are the one who brought me to life. I never once felt you were just doing your job or that your questions or comments were canned or copied from a textbook. It felt so personalized and relevant.

I am ever grateful for all of It and you'll never be forgotten.

YOU gave ME back to myself. Does that make sense? That sweet young girl with hopes and dreams Is back. She's even smarter, sweeter and more beautiful than she ever was. And she knows It now…..

I worked with Hilary very recently to help address a number of my personal life stressors and she helped me in ways I didn't even think were possible! She is so professional, amazing with communication, and really helped me work with the roots of my problems that helped me in several aspects of my life. She was genuinely rooting for me, and with her guidance I was able to accomplish things I simply would not have been able to have the courage to do even a month ago. Hilary is completely understanding and non-judgmental and I found it really easy to open up to her. I am so incredibly grateful to have worked with her and will be extending this coaching because it is just so helpful. I cannot recommend her enough!

I had the opportunity to train with Hilary a few years ago and reached out to her on several occasions. Hilary helped me change the way I saw my world, myself and what I was capable of. She is truly amazing!